Scripted reality for your pleasure

Morning good people. Random thought of the day always seems to produce a blog so here goes. As most of you are aware, reality tv is now a staple in out viewing landscape. We the viewers get to see people act foolish or not and have their lives open for the world to see.

Then comes the hammer of the people’ s judgement. This is the proverbial catch-22 where the “stars”(note the quotation marks) then start talking back to the world via Twitter, instagram, Facebook and yadda yadda about how can you judge us. You are seeing what the producers want you to see. Granted, that may be true but only to a certain extent. The behavior that is shown is not something the all of a sudden happened overnight and you all knew the job was dangerous when you took it.

Lets be serious. There is something human nature that love to see people make an ass of themselves.

We can also argue the point of how some of these show a small population of how certain ethnicities act and it is making some ethnicities look bad. Ethnicities do that anyway, tv has just begun to highlight the bad points kinda like how the history we learned school kinda glossed over some bad points but hey, the truth always comes out.

So here is where pot meets kettle. These supposed stars then wanna call out other reality tv stars behavior like their shit doesn’t stink. I guess somehow you forgot what you showed to the world or what your behavior was. Selective memory is a bitch huh?

Then we have the mightier than thou talking about how these shows are affecting the youth of today. So I am going to assume that we will no longer taking responsibility for raising our kids and letting them right from wrong and teaching them about why some people may behave the way they do. It would be great if people would own up to their “fuckery” .

So please don’t be mad when you put our business on front street and got the whole world wagging their tongues about you but you have to stay relevant, right?

Look at you first before we start looking outward

Mirror Mirror, Tell me How do I look

It seems that sometimes we forget to truly look inside ourselves and clean out our closets. We humans are always quick to judge others or start doing the might is right attitude and want to seek revenge.

Cease and Desist

Stop your madness. Before you go running around and telling people how to live their lives and such, Come to grips with your own faults and drama. We were born into this world to make mistakes and have problems. The real malfunction is when we repeat the same offense. Now I know I have faults ( procrastination, spelling, loneliness, hurt feelings, jealousy, anger, some rage, trust issue) But as you can see I have acknowledged their existence and working on just being happy. Being happy for me is foreign feeling especially as an adult. When I was little, I knew when things made me happy and they were the little or small things. But now, I want this toy or product because it well make me happy. Bought happy is temporary. Internal happy is forever and that is what I want. I have seen people get mad at other people for the wrong reasons. I have gotten angry at people for stupid reasons. We all have  ideas as to why we get angry. Someone getting close to someone we love or they have a close relationship with someone of the same sex. People don’t listen when you try to help them especially when they ask for help. People not giving you space or respecting your time because they are selfish.

1st.. Set boundaries. Let people know where you stand exactly. Let them know when you need time away from them and to yourself. WE ALL NEED IT ( yes even married folks). It doesn’t mean we love anyone any less. We just need time to ourselves.

2nd. Find your passion. What gets your internal fire burning? What would you loved to do if you had nothing to worry about? Find it and move forward with it

3rd. Trust your gut. I remember when I was younger, I never listened to my gut and it would get me in trouble. These days I do especially when random thoughts come in my head.

4th. Love yourself. This one is doozy. I am not talking being overconfident or a know it all. We are always taught that having too much love for yourselves is not healthy and to a point it isn’t. There is fine line between being confident and being arrogant. Learn to love the person you are faults and all and if there is anything you want to change, YOU will need to do it.

I love myself. I respect myself. I sometimes have to set boundaries when my loved ones don’t respect my time but I am learning to respect theirs as well. I know I have changes to make and I am going to do it.